An object in physics is anything that maintains recognizable coherence over time. That in turn allows simple creatures like ourselves to get a wayaway with representing the object using only a small number of bits, without endangering our survival too badly. But in terms of physics in the large, the number of things you have to get exactly right to make that kind of simplification easy and common is remarkably large. As humans we don't think about all of that much because quite frankly, we wouldn't be here if it were not true.