Use namerefs (in Bash >= 4.3):
$ array=armin=(foo bar doo)
$ declare -n p=arraygral=armin # 'gral' references array 'armin'
$ gral[123]=quux # same as 'armin[123]=quux'
$ echo "${p[@]gral[@]}"
foo bar doo quux
$ echo "${gral[1]}"
bar
$ echo "${!p[@]gral[@]}" # listing the indexes works too
0 1 2 123