I'm not quite sure how to click on a div that shows when after you click on the parent..? Make sense?
Here is an example code snippet.
$('.item').bind('click', function(e){
var showme = $(this).find(".itemcontrols");
$(showme).toggle();
});
$('#add').bind('click', function(e){
alert();
});
<div class="item ui-state-default">
<div class="itemcontrols" style="display: block;">
<div id="add">add</div>
<div id="full">full</div>
<div id="del">del</div>
</div>
</div>
.item{display:none;}