i want to add database to my netbeans java project using ip address.
my question is that when i specify hostname by name that is "localhost" followed my correct details in the new connection wizard in netbeans connection establishes succesfully. this is as shown below.
but when i specify host by specifying ip address of my own computer that is localhost connection doesn't get established. same is shown below

well my motive is not to put ip of localhost but of another pc for remote database sharing over internet. but i think the problem lies in the method of specifying host using ip. if i get it right database sharing might work between different hosts as well.
also any other methods of sharing postgres database over the internet are also welcome.
i am a newbie in java as well as netbeans so any help is appreciated.
listen_addressinpostgresql.conf?