This is not possible. Dependency can either be required for the package to work properly (then it should be in require section and it is always installed), or required only for development of this package (then it should be in require-dev section and is installed only when package repository is root). There is nothing in between. If this code-generator dependency is required by your package to work it clearly fails into first category (require section).
Usually in this case the best solution is to split this package into 2 packages: regular package and dev package with all tools used only during development process. So it should be installed by 2 commands:
composer require myvendor/mypackage
composer require myvendor/mypackage-dev --dev
This will still require everyone to install two packages instead of one, but it should not be a big problem if it is properly documented. Result should is more clear (it should be quite obvious what is the purpose of myvendor/mypackage-dev package) and gives more control to package owner (he can easily add new dependencies for dev package) and end user (he can always skip installing myvendor/mypackage-dev if he don't want to use this code generator).
composer.json.composer install --devgetcomposer.org/doc/03-cli.md#install